4.18.2008

B-LOVED: Abas Valet Clutch!

Have you ever played "that's my car" with the new Saks Holiday catalog? Or perhaps you've taken "window shopping" to the next level by going inside to inquire about a price? And of course, there are those of us who spot certain items, or hear about an experience that we absolutely covet without following through, due to price, impracticality, or other priorities (ah, priorities...). If this sounds like you, then I need your help and contributions for the brand new B-LOVED section.

ABAS VALET CLUTCH
Right now, I am totally loving my handy, dandy Abas clutch. I've had mine for over 2 years, but I get compliments on it at least once a day. Plus, Abas continues to roll out pretty metallics, lacquered animal prints, and other colors/textures that would make any bag-lover drool.

Beyond the styling, the Abas clutch is totally functional! It's large enough to carry when heading out, but compact enough to stuff into a larger bag.

The design is perfectly lady-like, with a retro, yet modern appeal. It's for the girl with lots of plastic, maybe a metro card, and hopefully a little cash to boot! Don't be scared by the $100+ price tag...you'll feel special every time you pop your Abas clutch open in the train station, at a restaurant, or perhaps the next time you go "window shopping".

Where to Buy:
Frosted Moon Emporium on South Portland (btw. Lafayette & Fulton) - Brooklyn, NY

The B-Life is looking for all reader submissions for items, places, things, etc. that are B-LOVED by you! Email me at theblife@gmail.com so you won't be in love alone.

4.16.2008

B out...TONIGHT (4/16)!

Spring is in the air...oh yes it is...no turning back...spring is in the air!

What: "It's a Shoe Thing" Shopping Event
When: Wed. April 16th 6-8P
Where: Te' Casan - 382 W. Broadway (btw. Spring & Broome)
Why: The Fashion Bomb is giving us a little bubbly PLUS a 20% off discount. Thanks Claire!!!



What: Women Who Jam
When: Wed. April 16th - Doors open at 7p - Show starts at 8p
Where: Ashford & Simpson's Sugar Bar - 254 West 72nd Street, New York
Why: "A subsidiary of NABFEME, Women Who Jam! is a popular all female national music showcase and respected brand of live entertainment designed to provide a promotional outlet and gathering place for ground breaking female entertainers including singers, musicians and poets who are often overlooked by labels, concert promoters, radio and the media. Showcases are supported by record executives, industry tastemakers and music fans alike!"

4.14.2008

Spa Week is baaack - April 14 - 20th, 2008!

It's Spa Week once again, so it's time to indulge and start setting up those appointments. For $50 you can wind down, re-energize, or melt away the week's stress with hot stone massages, body scrubs, reflexology and more. You deserve to treat yourself, so why not start a "me-time" tradition when you can get your thrills for the cheap (relatively speaking, of course).

The B-Life Pick - Dorit Baxter NY Day Spa
Location:
47 West 57th Street, Suite 301
New York, NY 10019
212.371.4542

Spa Week $50 Specials

55 Classic European Facial
45 Sea Mineral Body Scrub with Warm Hand Paraffin
Brazilian and Eyebrow Wax

relax, relate, release...

4.11.2008

B Out - This Weekend!

Happy Friday!!!
What: Bloom
When: Friday 4/11
Where: Nest - 215 W. 28th St. (btw. 7th & 8th Aves.)
Why: Spring is in Bloom + come out and celebrate with Columbia Business School students

What: ArtCrawl Harlem
When: Sunday 4/13
Where: All around Harlem!
Why: Explore the best art in Harlem's on a guided bus tour where you'll be escorted to various uptown galleries like Canvas Paper adn Stone Gallery, Essie Green Gallery, Tribal Spears and more!
For more information call Jacqueline Orange of Taste Harlem at 212-866-7427

4.10.2008

B in the Spotlight - Will DuBose Jr.

WILL DUBOSE JR.
ARCHITECT/DESIGNER
The B-Life is all about living right and making it by doing something you LOVE. We recently spent a little time with Will DuBose Jr., a talented architect & designer who strives to create beautiful and personal spaces for his clients. What makes a house a home? Or better yet, in NYC, what makes an apartment/loft/condo, etc. feel like more than bricks and drywall? Adding personal touches to your space with a creative redesign can make all the difference!

WILL'S BIO

Since its inception, Will’s company, Striving Design, has completed over 25 projects in New York City and surrounding areas. Work thus far includes: retail, commercial, and residential. Will received his Masters of Architecture at the University of Michigan, with studies completed at Oxford University and Morehouse College. He has also taught interior design at Pratt Institute, while running his Manhattan-based design practice.

WILL'S RECENT PROJECTS
  • Designer for HGTV's show Freestyle
  • Completed Interior Design for Magic Johnson’s Brooklyn Clock Tower apartments
  • Partnered with Dhani Jones (of the Cincinnati Bengals) for numerous projects, including the design of a Costa Rican eco-retreat.
  • Prepared designs and proposal for work at the residence of Hip Hop Mogul and Businessman. Hint: Can’t stop won’t stop
  • Completed designs for the residence of Anthony Mackie (Million Dollar Baby, We Are Marshall, She Hate Me)
WILL'S CURRENT/UPCOMING PROJECTS
  • A residence for a Showtime, CBS, Actor/Comedian
  • NYC Upper East Side apartment
  • MakeupMania flagship Store (182 Allen Street) opening in May
  • Brownstone of Textile Designer Malene Barnett
  • New Jersey Home of Doctor and retired basketball legend
B-LIFE Q&A with WILL DUBOSE JR.
1. What are your stats (age, hometown, schooling, etc.)?
I was born and raised in Chicago, IL, received my Masters of Architecture at the University of Michigan, with studies completed at Oxford University and Morehouse College.

My mom is a social worker and dad is a barber. My dad (through years of barber shop discussions) can talk about any subject: from television to molecular biology and he will sound good (I get that from him). My mom can relate to anyone and is a true striver and a mighty nice person (I get that from her).

2. How did you end up choosing architecture & design?
I began my studies as an artist. I visited Italy in summer of '93 to study art history and was enamored by Micheangelo and Brunaleschi's work. Since they did both architecture and art (and very well at that) I said I could too. I just knew I could make it happen.

Also being raised in the urban area of Chicago I was inspired to develop good housing thru the good and bad neighborhoods. Sometimes the best housing was all about the people who lived there; how they decorated with what they knew - grandmothers with plastic slipcovers and running mats throughout the house.

3. What has been the biggest challenge so far?
The biggest challenge is keeping the confidence. More important than anything anyone can think about me or any other prejudices I may encounter, believing that I can rock an apartment, home or office design matters most.

Kitchen - BEFORE

4. And the payoff?
The biggest payoff is looking at a space after it is done. The rhythm, the patterns, the big items purchased, the small architectural elements... all make sense. And doing this work (design work) everyday, full time, helps me realize what an opportunity I have been afforded.

Kitchen - AFTER


5. What makes you good at what you do?
My artistic background as a painter. I can put colors together that most folks cannot see. I create compositions that translate from 2d to 3d because of my experience as a painter, a designer, and a striver.

6. What would be your dream project, and why?
Designing a home for a highly spiritual person: the Dalai Lama, a pastor, an Islamic priest, or the Pope. Someone who spends lots of time at home. Spaces can assist in elevating your mind state, your condition, your health.

...Also designing a home for my grandmother

7. What do you think about all of the design shows on every network?
Has it helped or hurt your industry?
I have done a design show on HGTV and its been helpful to my career. However, I want to delve deeper as a designer in my next show. I have been told by producers taping me, "act gay! Give em what they want."

Will, Host - HGTV's Freestyle


8. What excites you about architecture/design?
What excites is me creating possibilities: Designing a room that makes a user stop and stand in awe.

9. If you weren't in your current field what else would you be doing?
I would be a writer. I would start a magazine... www.strivemagazine.com, as a matter of fact I will do that tonight. check out my mag site (smiles).

10. What has been your biggest triumph up to this point?
I consider the biggest triumph my next breath. My possibilities are here right now and I am creating more just being aware of right now. Many of my friends didn't make it to this point. I am just happy to be here doing what I love.

11. And failure?
Biggest failure...hmmm? At this point I have no regrets. "I just do it." I make so many mistakes, all the time, 75% of the time. But that's the beautiful part of it. Mistakes are a key part of the design process. If you want a good design you have to experience the mistakes.

12. What advice would you give to aspiring architects/designers?
Just do it and Just say next... every great professional does it.

A doctor loses a patient... They say, "NEXT!!!!"
A lawyer loses a case... They say, "NEXT!!!!"
Architects and designers and any other great professional has to realize, if
you are going to do something as great as designing a building or space or a
room, you will make mistakes. And if you make mistakes, say "NEXT!!!" That
will be part of the process.

13. If you had to give yourself one "B", what would it be? "B (bold,
bad, bossy, etc.).."?
Can I please have two words?..."Breakthrough Babyboy"

Thanks Will, now I'm inspired! When are you coming back uptown?

xo, Jen, The B-Life

Will's Contact:
Will DuBose Jr.
www.strivingdesign.com
phone: 646-344-9798
fax: 646-304-3271
Striving For: Vivid, Embracing Interiors and Architecture

4.07.2008

Saunders Sermon & Friends. - 4/9/08

Wednesday's never sounded so sweet...until Saunders Sermon brought the live jazz, that is! The B-Life is co-signing on this one, so if you're looking for a chill way to take in hump day, take it in at Sweet Rhythm

Saunders will knock you out with his one-two Trombonist/Vocalist combination - leaving you a little confused about which instrument you like the best. He's young, endearing, and he puts on a show that's laid back and goes perfectly with a mid-week cocktail. If Saunders alone isn't enough, he just might bring up friends like Lee Hogans (awesome trumpet player), Jesse Boykins III (a singer/songwriter with promise), or other members of his oh-so talented band. This is definitely a great look on a Wed. eve.! Don't just take my word for it...check it out for yourself.

Sweet Rhythm
88 Seventh Avenue South (@ Bleeker St.)
NYC

Saunders Sermon

Guest trumpeteer - Lee Hogans

Featured singer - Jesse Boykins III

Jamel

O.J.

B Linked!

The other night I had the great fortune of meeting a few interesting New Yorkers while at the Lola's gathering. While there, I was introduced to a sharp, stylish, and witty young woman who is also a bloggeress. B aka D authors A Belle in Brooklyn, which she describes as "the unintentionally hilarious New York adventures of a single Southern woman living way too far above the Mason Dixon." Brilliant. Her following is dedicated, loyal, and almost as sharped tongued as she is.

Take a quick peek at an excerpt from a recent post:
"...I had to take a moment to compose myself, lest I cuss in a church. Now I’m not the woman who usually assumes that a man making small talk is hitting on me. Sometimes folks just want to run off at the mouth to fill the silence. If you’re hitting on me, you’ve got to make it pretty plain. I need a declaration of interest or at least an implying tone, which Rev. So&So has just given me… as he sits where my grandfather used to and the way that he used to when I was young and as I stand where his coffin was just displayed two hours prior. This is some inappropriate shit. Plus, the motherfucker (yes, I just called a Rev. a motherfucker) just cut me off. That’s rude."

A Belle in Brooklyn is a totally voyeuristic look into B's daily life, rants, raves, and insights. It's all from her point of view, but there's something we can all relate too. Reading her site is like talking to that Aunt who always says EXACTLY what she wants when she comes to family dinner. It satisfies you in an old school values, but progressive and intelligent, and I admit I can still indulge in the drama of a good soap opera every now-and-then kinda way. Make sense? Just check out the site and you'll be hooked.

4.04.2008

B out...THIS WEEKEND!

TGIF...for real!
What: First Fridays @ the Guggenheim
When: Friday 4/4 - 9PM to 1AM
Where: The Guggenheim - 1071 5th Ave (@ 89th st.)
Why: It's $25 but you can't but a price on art, a good drink and music on a Friday night.

What: Corporate Rel & the Collective 6
When: Friday 4/4 - 8PM
Where: Sugar Bar - 254 W. 72nd St.
Where: Hip Hop & Poetry in one of the sexiest spaces in NY is always a sure bet. Plus the food is so tasty!

4.01.2008

B a duffle bag girl (or boy)!

Train, planes, and automobiles can take you anywhere you need to go this travel season. Warmer temps inspire weekend trips, so make sure to pack light in the most fashionable duffle you can find. Pick a bag to suit your personality or your whim! So many trips, so little time!

If you're utterly fabulous...
FENDI MIX DUFFLE

If you're always cool...
BOTKIER SASHA DUFFLE BAG

If you're a trend-setting fashionista... REBECCA MINKOFF DREAM BAG

If you're a little retro...
AMERICAN APPAREL VINYL DUFFLE

If you're sophisticated and timeless...
LOUIS VUITTON EPI KEEP ALL

If you're still a kid at heart...
HELLO KITTY LOUNGEFLY DUFFLE: METALLIC STARS


If you're a prepster...
TORY BURCH GARDEN SNAKE WEEKENDER BAG

If you're a thinker... J.CREW ARTISAN DUFFLE

If you're edgy...
JOHN VARVATOS EMBOSSED SATCHEL

If you're sporty...NIKE HAUTE SHOE CLUB PRINT BAG

B in St. Maarten - Last Chance!

Good Life Festival
April 23-28

St. Maarten
DEADLINE - APRIL 1st, 2008
B-Life Exclusive -The B-Discount!!! (see below)

This is the ULTIMATE vacation for professionals looking for the perfect getaway. No thinking required because the All Inclusive packages at the Sonesta Maho Beach Resort & Casino have you covered!

All Inclusive Package Rates (rates do not include airfare):
-Single Occupancy = $1220 or $1100 w/B-Discount
-Double Occupancy = $790 or $675 w/B-Discount
-Triple Occupancy = $725 or $615 w/B-Discount

- All Meals & Drinks

- Good Life Spa
, offering a wide range of beauty and body treatments and rejuvenating therapies, including spa packages

- Fitness Center, featuring state-of-the-art cardiovascular workout and weight training equipment

- Casino Royale, the island’s largest casino, featuring a live band, 400 slot machines, numerous table games and a private “high-roller” area (Plus, complimentary $20 Match Play Coupon)

- Maho Plaza is a shopper’s paradise with more than 40 fashionable shops and upscale boutiques, interspersed with a blend of 7 fine international restaurants.

- Q-Club, where you can dance the night away inside the island’s most pulsating, two story discotheque.

- Activities Desk to arrange leisure activities including golf, horseback riding, boating, water-sports and island excursions.

- 2 Freshwater swimming pools complete with sundeck lounge chairs overlooking the ocean. One with a swim up bar and the other more secluded.

- 4 Tennis courts, all-weather

- And so much more!

Activities Package Rates (mandatory):
Premium Package = $290 or $250 w/ B-Discount
Basic Package = $190 or $150 w/B-Discount

- The JI Group Good Life Official Festival Commencement Party at Bliss Outdoor Night

- Club by the beach

- The JI Group Good Life Festival Signature “White, Sandals & Stilettos” Mansion Party


- The Good Life Festival Concert at Carnival Village


- The JI Group Good Life Festival Enrichment Series for Young Professionals

- "Battle of the Sexes" on the Beach Party at Kon Tiki Restaurant French Side of the Island


- Sweet Escape All-Day Getaway to St. Bart's (Premium package only)


The B-Discount is being offered
exclusively through The B-Life for a limited time and is subject to change. Reserve your spot today. Contact us here for payment instructions. Email all inquiries directly to The B-Life. If you are interested in booking a "room-only", contact us directly.

3.31.2008

B quoted...

"If you don't have a dream in life, I don't know what you have. You have to want something beyond your reach; it's exciting when it works out." ~ Liya Kebede

3.30.2008

B at Lola!

Last week, several New Yorkers got together to support LOLA RESTAURANT with a two night after-work event. With it's spacious surroundings, this dining experience has an old school, meets modern luxe feel. Not to mention, the perfectly edited selection of Southern-Soul-Cajun food is as much of a draw as the vintage-posh setting.

Gardy Guerrier, Gary Grant and other NY tastemakers sought to attract a crowd to Lola to spread the word about this superb dining experience and to promote awareness about the challenges they've had since moving into the Soho location. Claims of racially motivated attacks from the Soho neighborhood alliance have prohibited Lola from playing live music at the venue due to the "element" that it might draw, and place other restrictions on the restaurant.

Lola, which is owned by an interracial couple, is an upscale dining establishment, so it's hard to believe that their neighbors would not welcome them with anything but open arms. As a result of the push-back, it's critical to support Lola in any way possible. Stop by for a drink, make a reservation, or simply spread the word to your friends. Not only will you help in stimulate business, but you'll leave with a guaranteed go-to spot anytime you're in the area.

LOLA RESTAURANT
15 Watts Street @ Thompson St., NYC
212-675-6700


CJ & LAUREN

KELLI & JEN

PECAN CRUSTED RACK OF LAMB

SHRIMP & GRITS

GARDY V. GUERRIER

MONIQUE & GARY GRANT

MOORE, GARDY, & RICH