4.07.2008

B Linked!

The other night I had the great fortune of meeting a few interesting New Yorkers while at the Lola's gathering. While there, I was introduced to a sharp, stylish, and witty young woman who is also a bloggeress. B aka D authors A Belle in Brooklyn, which she describes as "the unintentionally hilarious New York adventures of a single Southern woman living way too far above the Mason Dixon." Brilliant. Her following is dedicated, loyal, and almost as sharped tongued as she is.

Take a quick peek at an excerpt from a recent post:
"...I had to take a moment to compose myself, lest I cuss in a church. Now I’m not the woman who usually assumes that a man making small talk is hitting on me. Sometimes folks just want to run off at the mouth to fill the silence. If you’re hitting on me, you’ve got to make it pretty plain. I need a declaration of interest or at least an implying tone, which Rev. So&So has just given me… as he sits where my grandfather used to and the way that he used to when I was young and as I stand where his coffin was just displayed two hours prior. This is some inappropriate shit. Plus, the motherfucker (yes, I just called a Rev. a motherfucker) just cut me off. That’s rude."

A Belle in Brooklyn is a totally voyeuristic look into B's daily life, rants, raves, and insights. It's all from her point of view, but there's something we can all relate too. Reading her site is like talking to that Aunt who always says EXACTLY what she wants when she comes to family dinner. It satisfies you in an old school values, but progressive and intelligent, and I admit I can still indulge in the drama of a good soap opera every now-and-then kinda way. Make sense? Just check out the site and you'll be hooked.

4.04.2008

B out...THIS WEEKEND!

TGIF...for real!
What: First Fridays @ the Guggenheim
When: Friday 4/4 - 9PM to 1AM
Where: The Guggenheim - 1071 5th Ave (@ 89th st.)
Why: It's $25 but you can't but a price on art, a good drink and music on a Friday night.

What: Corporate Rel & the Collective 6
When: Friday 4/4 - 8PM
Where: Sugar Bar - 254 W. 72nd St.
Where: Hip Hop & Poetry in one of the sexiest spaces in NY is always a sure bet. Plus the food is so tasty!

4.01.2008

B a duffle bag girl (or boy)!

Train, planes, and automobiles can take you anywhere you need to go this travel season. Warmer temps inspire weekend trips, so make sure to pack light in the most fashionable duffle you can find. Pick a bag to suit your personality or your whim! So many trips, so little time!

If you're utterly fabulous...
FENDI MIX DUFFLE

If you're always cool...
BOTKIER SASHA DUFFLE BAG

If you're a trend-setting fashionista... REBECCA MINKOFF DREAM BAG

If you're a little retro...
AMERICAN APPAREL VINYL DUFFLE

If you're sophisticated and timeless...
LOUIS VUITTON EPI KEEP ALL

If you're still a kid at heart...
HELLO KITTY LOUNGEFLY DUFFLE: METALLIC STARS


If you're a prepster...
TORY BURCH GARDEN SNAKE WEEKENDER BAG

If you're a thinker... J.CREW ARTISAN DUFFLE

If you're edgy...
JOHN VARVATOS EMBOSSED SATCHEL

If you're sporty...NIKE HAUTE SHOE CLUB PRINT BAG

B in St. Maarten - Last Chance!

Good Life Festival
April 23-28

St. Maarten
DEADLINE - APRIL 1st, 2008
B-Life Exclusive -The B-Discount!!! (see below)

This is the ULTIMATE vacation for professionals looking for the perfect getaway. No thinking required because the All Inclusive packages at the Sonesta Maho Beach Resort & Casino have you covered!

All Inclusive Package Rates (rates do not include airfare):
-Single Occupancy = $1220 or $1100 w/B-Discount
-Double Occupancy = $790 or $675 w/B-Discount
-Triple Occupancy = $725 or $615 w/B-Discount

- All Meals & Drinks

- Good Life Spa
, offering a wide range of beauty and body treatments and rejuvenating therapies, including spa packages

- Fitness Center, featuring state-of-the-art cardiovascular workout and weight training equipment

- Casino Royale, the island’s largest casino, featuring a live band, 400 slot machines, numerous table games and a private “high-roller” area (Plus, complimentary $20 Match Play Coupon)

- Maho Plaza is a shopper’s paradise with more than 40 fashionable shops and upscale boutiques, interspersed with a blend of 7 fine international restaurants.

- Q-Club, where you can dance the night away inside the island’s most pulsating, two story discotheque.

- Activities Desk to arrange leisure activities including golf, horseback riding, boating, water-sports and island excursions.

- 2 Freshwater swimming pools complete with sundeck lounge chairs overlooking the ocean. One with a swim up bar and the other more secluded.

- 4 Tennis courts, all-weather

- And so much more!

Activities Package Rates (mandatory):
Premium Package = $290 or $250 w/ B-Discount
Basic Package = $190 or $150 w/B-Discount

- The JI Group Good Life Official Festival Commencement Party at Bliss Outdoor Night

- Club by the beach

- The JI Group Good Life Festival Signature “White, Sandals & Stilettos” Mansion Party


- The Good Life Festival Concert at Carnival Village


- The JI Group Good Life Festival Enrichment Series for Young Professionals

- "Battle of the Sexes" on the Beach Party at Kon Tiki Restaurant French Side of the Island


- Sweet Escape All-Day Getaway to St. Bart's (Premium package only)


The B-Discount is being offered
exclusively through The B-Life for a limited time and is subject to change. Reserve your spot today. Contact us here for payment instructions. Email all inquiries directly to The B-Life. If you are interested in booking a "room-only", contact us directly.

3.31.2008

B quoted...

"If you don't have a dream in life, I don't know what you have. You have to want something beyond your reach; it's exciting when it works out." ~ Liya Kebede

3.30.2008

B at Lola!

Last week, several New Yorkers got together to support LOLA RESTAURANT with a two night after-work event. With it's spacious surroundings, this dining experience has an old school, meets modern luxe feel. Not to mention, the perfectly edited selection of Southern-Soul-Cajun food is as much of a draw as the vintage-posh setting.

Gardy Guerrier, Gary Grant and other NY tastemakers sought to attract a crowd to Lola to spread the word about this superb dining experience and to promote awareness about the challenges they've had since moving into the Soho location. Claims of racially motivated attacks from the Soho neighborhood alliance have prohibited Lola from playing live music at the venue due to the "element" that it might draw, and place other restrictions on the restaurant.

Lola, which is owned by an interracial couple, is an upscale dining establishment, so it's hard to believe that their neighbors would not welcome them with anything but open arms. As a result of the push-back, it's critical to support Lola in any way possible. Stop by for a drink, make a reservation, or simply spread the word to your friends. Not only will you help in stimulate business, but you'll leave with a guaranteed go-to spot anytime you're in the area.

LOLA RESTAURANT
15 Watts Street @ Thompson St., NYC
212-675-6700


CJ & LAUREN

KELLI & JEN

PECAN CRUSTED RACK OF LAMB

SHRIMP & GRITS

GARDY V. GUERRIER

MONIQUE & GARY GRANT

MOORE, GARDY, & RICH

3.28.2008

Happy "Born" Day Matt!

The B-Life sends a very special shout out to Matt on his big day! B on it and BG'08.... xo, Jen


B out...THIS WEEKEND!


What: Rebirth! 2008
When: Sat. 3/29 7-11PM
Where: Helen Mills Studios - 135 W. 26th St. @ 6th Ave.
Why: Celebrate achievements in black cinema with the New York Urban League of Young Professionals
B Linked for more info!



What: New York Condo Showcase
When: Sunday 3/30 12:30 - 7:00PM
Where: Puck Building - 295 Lafayette Street @ Houston
Why: Thinking about buying or upgrading? Check out over 40 buildings, grab a cocktail, and enjoy live jazz! Now that's an efficient use of a Sunday afternoon!
B Linked for more info!

3.27.2008

B casted!


Ready for your fame, glory, and wealth...or maybe just 14.5 minutes of fame? Either way, lots of GREAT casting opportunities are out there for you to get your shine on...so b casted!

What: Project Runway
Who: Aspiring designers who aren't afraid to create couture from candy wrappers
How: B Linked!

What: The Tyra Show
Who: Brides and bridal parties battling cellulite before a big beach bachelorette trip. You and your girls can smooth it out by testing load of products for Tyra.
How: B Linked!

What: The Apprentice 5
Who: Savvy businessman/woman who can take on Trump and 11 other competitors without sweating...no stuttering either!
How: B linked!

3.25.2008

B naked...


for a great cause, of course! How happy are New Yorkers that yellow cabs have added the TV-Taxi/credit card machine feature? I, who am mostly cashless, love it. But what's more is the fact that you can check the weather, PLUS, hear a few headlines on your ride to wherever! Just last week I learned about the Bottomless Closet while riding home after work. It's an organization created to provide deserving women with clothing to get back into the workforce. Much like Dress for Success, Bottomless Closet provides 2 suits to wear to an interview, but they also give grooming advice, interview tips, and offer to let members return for 3 additional work-appropriate outfits once they land a job!


After hearing about the organization I was already motivated to clean out my closet, but then I heard about Girls Night Out being held at the Harlem designer boutique - N, in support of Bottomless Closet. Clearly, the stars are aligned - and just in time for spring cleaning! Not only will you be able to make a donation to a great cause, but you can make room for a few new pieces, have a cocktail, support business in Harlem, and receive a 15% discount at N to get your Spring shopping started. It's a win-win all around!

What: GIRLS NIGHT OUT

When: Thursday 3/27 6-8PM
Where: N Boutique - 114 W. 116th St.
Why: see above :)


3.24.2008

B Tubed...with a political outlook

As Americans get even more involved in the race for the Democratic nomination, take a quick peak at how people are using the web, and YouTube to speak out for their favorites. Zoe Kravitz (looking very much like a mini-Denise Huxtable) leads the Obama video, proving that young voters want to be heard. And the Hillary video wants us to know that she has a softer, crushable side too...

"Hot 4 Hill"


"We Are the Ones"

3.20.2008

B out this weekend!

Spring is in the air...? Eh, almost. Either way, it's time to come out of hibernation!
xo, The B-Life

What: HERMES WAREHOUSE SALE
When: Thursday 3/20. 10 a.m.-8 p.m.; Friday 3/21 & Saturday 3/22 10 a.m.-6 p.m.
Where: Metropolitan Pavilion, 123 W. 18 St., b/t Sixth & Seventh Aves., 4th flr.
Why: Samantha almost cut Lucy Liu for her Hermes in the old SATC days. Now you can get yours for the cheap (relatively speaking)!

What: LOWER NINTH - THE PLAY
When: Saturday 3/22 - 7PM
Where: The Flea Theatre - 1 White St., between Broadway and Church St., three blocks south of Canal St.
Why: For $45 you can support an independent play production about New Orleans starring actors from The Wire, NYPD Blue, and Friday Night Lights, get insight from the cast in a special Q&A, and receive comped admission to the threeKings afterparty at Canal Room.
Click here for more info

3.17.2008

B a (financially) responsible dater...

As of late, the topic of dating etiquette has come into question around my office. Should a guy always pay? Should a girl always offer? The ladies at the magazine were definitely divided, which is why I commissioned a co-worker to come up with a few helpful tips to ease some of the awkwardness that arises at the end of the date.

THE FINANCIAL RULES OF DATING
Written by: Tara M. Guillaume

1. Guys, foot the bill on the first date, especially if you extended the invitation. Don't let the the tension build while the check sits on the table.

2. Ladies, let the man be a man. Your first date is not the time to proclaim how financially-able you are by picking up the tab. Concentrate on your date, not the check.

3. Ladies & gents - only accept a date from someone you are attracted to or could potentially like, not because you want a free meal. Anything else is utterly selfish and inconsiderate.

4. Ladies, there's nothing wrong with asking a guy for a date. Men love it. But be prepared to pay. Arrange with the maitre d' to have the bill sent directly to you or pre-pay the bill. Most importantly, don't expect for your date to pick up the check just because he's a man. While it's nice for him to pay, know that ultimately the check is on you.

5. Ladies, don't feel obligated to reciprocate "payment" with a kiss, sex, or cash.

6. Keep convo light around bill time. Don't speak about finances right before the check arrives - otherwise it sounds like you're leading him to pay.

7. Men, stop rifling through your wallet. Always come prepared for the date you initiated. Stop off at the ATM or your friend's house for whatever ends you need to pay for your date.

The B-Life Financial Dating Tips (just a few more):
  • General rule of thumb - the man should fully handle the first 3 dates
  • Ladies, don't just be polite and pretend to offer to pay if you don't have it. Once the offer is made, he might actually accept - whether you think it's appropriate or not.
  • After a couple has gone on several dates (3 or more), the woman should start pitching in and cover some outings. Asking a woman to tip is a great transitional step to sharing financial responsibilities.
  • Guys, if you're meeting your girl's friends for the first time in a social setting, offer the entire group a round of drinks on you (or coffee or pick up the lunch tab). A little bit goes a long way.

Happy Birthday Christian!

(Past event)

This weekend 2 of NY's favorite promoters took over Element to celebrate good times, and the return of warmer temperatures. The B-Life is shouting out one birthday boy for throwing his first birthday party EVER!

BIRTHDAY BOY
Christian Grant-Fields

Mike and Elkhair from Triumph & threeKINGS def. put their stamp on the event.

Uptown girls made it happen on a Sat. night.

Danielle & Aden effortlessly run the show. (Thanks for the hospitality!)

Harold & Jozen kicked it like it was '02!

PYTs - Raves & D!

Court & Mone - always the coolest brothas in the club!

ATL's finest!

NY get your hands up! Moore & Gardy graced the scene.

Cutest duo - love it!

B-Life faves! Ross, Morgan, and Tiffany came thru!

A look of satisfaction? I think so!

Once again, happy b-day CGF!