B out...THIS WEEKEND (NYC)

What: Chico, Ginuwine, & Joe at SummerStage!
When: Sunday July 26th, 3-7PM
Where: Central Park (Rumsey Playfield in Central Park. Enter the park at 69th Street and 5th Avenue on the east side or at 72nd Street and Central Park West on the west side.)
Why: Now you know if it weren't for these three, the 90's wouldn't have been as eventful...

B Reviewed: Dinosaur BBQ

646 W 131st St.
New York, NY 10027
212-694-1777

Rediscover an old favorite (or visit that spot you kept hearing about, but never experienced for yourself). Harlem's Dinosaur BBQ is the perfect place for messy, hearty food, and fellowship.

On a chance visit after landing from a flight, we headed to Dinosaur BBQ only to compete for seats with every recreational softball teams in the area. Winners, losers, spectators - it didn't matter! All the players just wanted to get to that grub!

With moderate prices, and several combo plates where you can taste ribs, chicken, and brisket, with a side of shrimp - you won't leave hungry. It might not taste exactly like your uncle's grill, but it's a fun stop with friends that will satisfy the "greedy" before to get back to your summer salads.

B Inspired: Keri Hilson - Futuristic Homage

Keri Hilson in London

They say imitation is the greatest form of flattery. If so, we have no shame in our love of Keri Hilson's...everything. Chick is rocking a few modern shapes with the courageous harem pant, bold brights, and cheeky accessories - tossing a nod to the "homeland". While an out-and-out copy would be a little insane, the picks below channel Keri's look for a fraction of the price.

L to R: Forever 21 Distressed Metallic Jacket - $38; Alex Lane Silk Harem Jumpsuit - $345; White Trash Charms Lightening Bolt - $145; Masked Shield Earrings - $153; Michael Antonio Lorenzo Pump - $70; Forever 21 Floral Puzzle Bracelet - $9; Forever 21 Raised Dot Bangle - $4

MIH Heatwave 9.0

It was a beautiful day in the neighborhood, as MIH celebrated the 9th edition of their famous Heatwave BBQ in Prospect Park, Brooklyn.

B quoted...

"When I decide to seduce you...if I decide to seduce you, don't worry - you'll know it." ~ Jacqueline, played by Robin Givens, Boomerang

Timing is everything. Don't strike until it's your time to make it hot.

B Out...THIS WEEKEND (NYC)

What: Thurst4Life
When: Thursday, July 16th, 7-10PM
Where: Pollen Nation - 11 E. 125th St.
Why: Harlem pre-game? Sounds fab!

What: QTip at SummerStage
When: Saturday, July 18th, 3-7PM
Where: Central Park (Rumsey Playfield in Central Park. Enter the park at 69th Street and 5th Avenue on the east side or at 72nd Street and Central Park West on the west side.)
Why: A living legend in the park. So there!

What: Heatwave 9.0 "The BBQ"
When: Sunday, July 19th, 12PM - sundown
Where: Prospect Park - Brooklyn, NY (just follow the crowds)
Why: Hands-down one of the best events of the summer!

B a good Bridesmaid...

Bridesmaid DO's and DON'Ts

Wedding Season is upon us, and it's a wonderful time of love, reunions, new unions, and overall commitments. One commitment, not to be underestimated, is that of being a bridesmaid. You have to commit your time, money, and most of all - patience. And even though a bridesmaid is charged with supporting the bride at all costs, there is a limit. Let's explore a few, and feel free to add to the list!

DON'T agree to be a bridesmaid just because your co-worker just got engaged, is new to the area, and doesn't have any friends.
DO be gracious when asked to serve as a bridesmaid, regardless of the answer, and make the decision that's right for you.

DON'T agree to gain weight, just because the bride wants to look better than the entire bridal party.
DO feel free to give input on the style of the dress. Not everyone looks good in a satin slip dress.

DON'T agree to be a bridesmaid just so that you can meet one of the groomsmen.
DO remember that as a member of the bridal party, you are a representation of the bride and groom. So keep it classy!

DON'T agree to pay for EVERY trip, cake, and miscellaneous activity when your bride has champagne taste on a Bud Light budget. It's not your job to supplement her expenses.
DO make sacrifices with your time and energy to attend all "required" events and support your bride.

DON'T for a second think the wedding is about you, just because you're in the bridal party.
DO be genuinely happy for the bride, be at her beckon call, and give her a few allowances on wedding day.

B in the Spotlight: Kobe Saki

Kobe Saki of Kobe Saki Creative Studio

Q: Why did you create a Michael Jackson tribute line?
A: I decided to do an MJ line because I'm a designer. This was a great opportunity
to express my own feelings towards the man through the products I put out
there.

Q: What makes your collection distinct?
A: My line is distinct from others in that it covers an entire spectrum of styles.
There's vintage tees, trendy tees, and what I view as high fashion looks.
However the collective goal is to have shirts that stand apart within their
respective genres. For example silhouette tees often lend themselves to high
fashion or trendiness. I chose to place a spin on the silhouette by activating it
with a custom montage.


Q: What do you have coming up next?
A: Well, you can expect a line of sport-themed women's and men's tees to be designed
by Kobe Saki, and released under a start up label. The name is hush for now, but
the label has meetings scheduled with a sports agency representing one of the
top NBA draft picks. It should be a hot line. 

Link to purchase: http://shop.ebay.com/merchant/kobe.saki

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B Trend Alert: Gravy, Baby...

Gray is here to stay for another season to season. Sleek up your look with a gray sheath, or sexy bandage dress, or add a touch of gray to a cool down a bright lemon or pink. Smoking!

Zoe Saldana stuns in a gray Calvin Klein dress at the CFDA Awards

L to R (Clockwise): Deena & Ozzie Scarf - $20; Herve Leger Ombre Bandage Dress - $795; DKNY Sunglasses - $99; Vintage 1 Ripped Motorcycle Jeans - $225; Louis Vuitton Duffel - price upon request; L.A.M.B. Rae -$329

B Quoted...JANET JACKSON

"In complete darkness we are all the same, it is only our knowledge and wisdom that separates us, don't let your eyes deceive you."
~ Janet Jackson

Only a fool judges a book by his cover.

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Michael Jackson Memorial Service

Tuesday, July 7th, 2009. 10:00AM
Staples Center
Los Angeles, CA

Read more here.

B Craved: La La Summer Style...

B Craved...

Kim K is usually the focus of lust-worthy star style, but La La really stepped out in this laid-back, chic summer look. The key is the Men's button down shirt that you can literally take right out of your boyfriend's closet. That certainly makes the weekend packing a little lighter if your man has style, and loves linen as much as mine does! Dress around it with these ultra-affordable pieces that complete the look!


Or Save!

Clockwise: Target Xhilaration Tortoiseshell Sunglasses - $13; Banana Republic Men's Linen Military Shirt - $45; Aldo Ichalang Bag - $35; Urban Outfitters Metal Bauble & Leather Bracelet - $28; Antik Batik Petris Thong Sandal - $185; Forever 21 Cuffed Short w/ Belt - $12; Banana Republic Sash Belt - $50

VIBE Magazine folds...

February 1998

VIBE Magazine - an icon in the music and publishing game for 16 years, closes its doors. Very sad. Read more here. What do you think...?

B in Harlem (on 125th) to Celebrate MJ

The Michael Jackson Mourning/Celebration continued in Uptown NYC...the crowd grew throughout the day in front of, around, and near the Apollo Theatre on 125th St.
A few pics below.