3.06.2009

B out...THIS WEEKEND!

What: 37th Annual H. Naylor Fitzhugh Conference
When: March 6-8th
Where: Harvard Business School
Why: Join the African American Student Union at Harvard Business School as they host weekend of panels, town hall meetings, and a plethora of networking opportunities. The panelists are an all-star roster of who's who in black business. It's definitely worth a road trip!

3.05.2009

B in the Spotlight: Donnie Klang

The B-Life got to know a little more about Bad Boy's answer to blue-eyed soul - Donnie Klang. On this season of MTVs Making the Band, Donnie has to prove himself to be a vital asset to the Bad Boy family by showing he's hungry enough to make it in the music business. Can't stop, won't stop...? Donnie has it all - the voice, the moves, and the exposure. The questions is - how does he get to the next level?


Q: Reality star or musician?
A: I definitely am a musician. Reality TV just happens to be how I got my big break... but i've been doing this for long before Making The Band. I used to sing in groups and we had label deals and management deals on the table for the past 10 years... but it never worked out- we just got our hearts broken over and over. This was almost like my last chance at it.

Q: Diddy says you’re fighting for your dream. What/who do you feel is your biggest obstacle to knock down?
A: It's really a catch 22 coming from a reality show. It is a great way for fans to get to know you and see you developing yourself as an entertainer, but in my case i'm a solo artist and I stay out of the drama- basically because i'm not in a group fighting with my group members. So a lot of the reality show ratings come from drama- it is what keeps viewers viewing. So it hurts my airtime and I don't get the same exposure as the groups. On top of that... coming from a reality show it is almost like we aren't taken seriously. Especially now that Danity Kane has broken up... I think being able to overcome the reality show hurdle is my biggest obstacle. It's about show and prove. I have to prove myself to the world.

Q: Tell the truth – are you better off as a solo artist or would you have rather of been a part of Day 26?
A: I definitely think i'm much better off solo. The group thing has its ups and downs... as does being a solo artist... but now that i'm starting to find myself as a singer and entertainer I know this is right for me.

Q: Who is your biggest influence?
A: Aside from my parents... Will Smith. He has had such a well-rounded career and he has always stayed in the media in a positive light. I like how he balanced his music with TV and film. On top of all that he has always been a great role model.

Q: What have you learned being on the road?
A: I learned you need to keep your head on your shoulders. Don't get into drugs. Also I learned what style of music I get the best crowd response out of. I'm going to really lock in on this style for my next album. I think fans want something real from me. I've been through a lot and I know a lot about music and theory and production and writing-- I'm going to put it all into this next album and come up with a story.

Q: Who would be your dream line up on the Donnie Klang Tour?
A: Well I opened for the Backstreet Boys, which was really incredible. I would say my dream line up would be myself opening for BoyzIIMen, 112, N'sync, Usher, MJ, Prince- maybe some kind of Evolution of POP / R&B type of tour.

Q: If you could “b" anything, what/where would you be right now at this very moment?
A: Honestly it would be doing exactly what i'm doing except I wish I had some hits on the radio (Because there are a number of hits on my album). But i'm glad it wasn't all handed to me on a silver platter. My biggest obstacle is getting the world to take me seriously... and now here not doing so well right of the gate gives me an opportunity to turn things around and prove myself.

Catch MTV's Making the Band on Thursdays at 9PM ET!

3.04.2009

B quoted...

"I think it's good that I have to watch how I act and what I say. I think it's a part of growing up." ~ Sean "Diddy" Combs

2.25.2009

B on vacation...

The B-Life is taking a short vacation. We'll be back with you in March!

B a Recessionista!

Most of us have finally come to a point where we've realized - Houston, we have a problem. This recession has spiraled out of control, and we can no longer pretend it's not real, just because we avoid opening our 401K statements. If it hasn't touched us personally, we all have a friend who is way too bright to be out here in the world without a job, or at minimum, an interview. That being said, the recession has officially smacked us in the face, and it's time to take action, and be pro-active about saving and spending wisely. It's a personal challenge of mine, so I wanted to start by thinking of ways to be more prudent without sacrificing too much of my normal routine.

1. Call your credit card company and ask them for the lowest interest rate available.

Just play a little hardball and use phrases like "I'm thinking of closing this card" or "What's the lowest interest rate you're currently offering?"


2. Create a budget: Income - Expenses = Amount Banked Per MonthThe easiest way is to start backwards when creating a budget. If I make X amount per month, and I want to save X amount per month...how much can I spend? Work it out!


3. Carry cash...only.
Tried and tested - this has a 100% success rate! Swiping your debit card all day long is gonna put you in a bad place. Take out exactly what you're allowed to spend in cash on Sunday afternoon for the upcoming week. When you only have $40 left and it's Friday morning, you're gonna think twice about that $5 latte.


4. Accept industry invitations. (Think: open bar)
Remember when you first moved to the city and you accepted every industry invitation and there were open bars for days? No shame in your game. Get your swagger back on someone else's dime.


5. Embrace your inner child - dust off your piggy bank for splurge purchases.
Want a new flat screen or the latest Balenciaga bag? Don't deny yourself completely, but do employ old school tactics and stash a little cash each week for your splurge. Patience, my friend.


6. Throw a dinner party.
Eating out usually costs $30 per person at minimum. Don't neglect your friends just because you're trying to save Start a rotating dinner club where each member takes a turn hosting. For less that $100 you can easily feed 5 people.


7. Brown-bag it.
Obviously.


8. Reserve taxi rides for weekends only.
When leaving the party with friends you can split the tab! Otherwise, use that unlimited MTA card. That's why you bought it!


9. Make a list of free events.
Peruse the weekly "happenings" section of your local newspaper for free events. You'd be surprised at how active your social life will be once you incorporate a few art gallery openings, movie screenings, and the list goes on...!


10. Explore a side hustle.
You have to find a minimum of 2 streams of income. Period.


If you have any other smart money tips, please email them to me at
theblife@gmail.com. Let's keep this thing going! xo, Jen

2.24.2009

B...the SEXIEST date spot in NYC!

The Great Jones Spa
29 Great Jones St., NYC 10012
212.505.3185


Ok, the secret is out. (And I'm sorry to my Facebook friends who I asked to wait patiently for this post.) It's not a restaurant, it's not a lounge, and no Wayne, it's not a swingers club. My current vote for the SEXIEST date spot in NYC, unless someone proves me otherwise, is the Water Lounge at The Great Jones Spa. When I stumbled upon it accidentally over the weekend, I felt like I was on the overnight "dream date" on The Bachelor.


The Water Lounge at The Great Jones Spa is an oasis in the middle of Noho. Just picture, you and your date stripping down to tasteful bathing suits, and rinsing off in a multi-head shower before you take on the definition of an adult water park.

For $50 (or free with any spa service over $100), you and your boo can enjoy 3 hours in the 4-part water lounge: the River Rock Sauna, the Chakra-Light Steam Room, the Thermal Hot Tub, and the Cold Plunge.

You can explore the wet activities as a pair, have light conversation while you sip green tea, and detoxify your body, and stimulate your (eh hem...) senses. Your experience will only be further heightened by the calming sounds of the waterfalls surrounding you, and the light jets of the thermal hot tub.


The water lounge feels like a Roman bath, with sex appeal. The power to balance, restore, provide a comfortable setting to get to know each other intimately (through conversation) is all there. And once you dry off and throw on your white robe, my guess is you'll be itching to start part 2 of your date.

B-Life hint: Try going Wed - Friday. The water lounge closes a little later at 9:30PM.

2.22.2009

Outstanding Oscar Fashion: Sensational Seven!

Taraji P. Henson wearing Roberto Cavalli


Vanessa Hudgens wearing Marchesa


Alicia Keys wearing Armani Prive'


Marisa Tomei wearing Versace

Beyonce Knowles wearing House of Dereon
(great work Mrs. Tina! - So Vanity 6, but love it!!)



Jessica Biel weating Prada

Sarah Jessica Parker wearing Dior Haute Couture

B quoted: John Legend


"The best training is to play by ear: trial by fire." ~ John Legend

2.19.2009

Reader Submission: B outraged!

Hey Jen,

I just thought the below would be something worth posting and commenting about on your Blog. This is very disrespectful, outrageous and upsetting. I will be writing a letter and think your blog is a good communication board to encourage others to do the same.

It should be understood that this new generation of young voters and Americans who want to move forward and look to the future will NOT tolerate such shameful reporting and antics... It's plain out not funny!!!

The main thing I would like to get across is that "we" whom all a have a part and responsibility to this presidency MUST respond to this!!! This was the NY Post... where are their heads at to allow such a thing to be printed? I think this is the perfect opportunity to nip this sort of bad behavior in the bud by making it be known that this is upsetting and not cool, not cool at all! Please encourage ALL to take 10 minutes and write to the editor

I'm pissed, really pissed!

Thanx!
Roc

B reviewed: For the Love of Ray J

It's with some shame, and complete candidness, that I review yet another reality show "For the Love of Ray J." On one hand you have to thank the stars that Flavor class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Flav's coon show has come to an end, but on the other hand, are we really happy that Brandy's little brother has continued his legacy. Admittedly, (and don't you tell a soul), yes.

Watching Ray J "search for love" is kinda like watching your egg-head cousin run through girls with b-level game, and having a chuckle at how emotionally involved these chicks are after 1 night of living in his "house". To be fair, Ray J does have a charm, an honesty, and a little swag that makes his commentary quite humorous and engaging. I also have to admit, after seeing the tape, you also feel that Ray J, just might be entitled to a girl that can handle him...all of him.

Speaking of the girls...not bad. While I doubt any of them are doing anything super significant, other than participating in the show, some of them seem like genuine, cute, round-the-way girls that I could be friends with. What's more is that you feel like you actually know a girl just like "Unique" or just like "Cocktail", unlike the characters like "New York" who were completely manufactured.

Check you local listings for show times, but don't tell anyone you read about it on ont style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 102); font-style: italic;">The B-Life.

xo, Jen

2.18.2009

B a look-a-like?

Do these Hollywood (and political) stars ever get a case of mistaken identity? Between dabbling in similar trends and mutual red carpet events, it's likely.

Desiree' Rogers & Terri Vaughn


Fonzworth Bentley & Ryan Leslie


Vanessa Bryant & Kim Kardashian


Chudney Ross & Essence Atkins


Nas & Timbaland


Lil' Kim & Monica "Danger" Leon (from For the Love of Ray Jay)

2.17.2009

B out...WEDNESDAY

What: Sol Village
When: Wed. February 18th, 8PM
Where: SOB's - 204 Varick St. @ W. Houston
Why: Eric Roberson & company...love it!

2.16.2009

B bizarre or brilliant?


Hmmm, it's several days later, and I'm still a little baffled. You be the judge. How are we feeling?

2.15.2009

Trend Watch: B armed!

Long shoulder bags are perfect for Spring, and they're completely fuss-free. The long Chanel chain-link bag is the classic iteration of this trend, but there are lots of fun versions to choose from. Slang it across your shoulder, pack light, and you're all set!


All-Purpose Edge (a la Rihanna)

Urban Outfitters - Colonial Madness Mini Pouch - $69 ($49 in the store!)


Femme Avant Gard (a la Solange)
Forever 21 - Croc Heart Clutch w/ Chain - $19


Sporty Chic (a la The Simmons Sisters)


Ethnic (a la India Arie)

West/Feren - Berkshire Bag - $175


Artsy (a la Denise Huxtable
)
Forever 21 - Sequined Shoulder Bag - $12


Glamorous (a la Apollonia)
Carlos Falchi - Baby Satchel - $255


Preppy (a la Ashley Banks)
Miu Miu - Stamped Leather Clutch - $420

B Tubed: "I'm on a Boat" featuring T-Pain


I didn't want to like this but...damn.